Design Your Dating Life to Attract Partners Who Elevate Your Life's Purpose and Goals
In this free 30 minute call , we'll give you a simple and practical, customized dating strategy that you can put into action immediately and start seeing unmistakable results.
Visual/UX Designers
Innovation Strategists
Creative Directors
AI/AR/VR Engineers
Frontend Engineers
When we spend our days solving complex problems, pushing creative boundaries, or building the next big thing, it’s easy to convince ourselves that fulfillment will come after we hit the next milestone. Instead, we find ourselves in patterns where we:
• Struggle to balance meaningful relationships with the demands of work, feeling like there’s never enough time for both
• Get so caught up in deadlines, projects, and problem-solving that we lose sight of who we really are and what we actually want in a partner.
• End up with relationships that feel comfortable but uninspired, unsure of how to break free or build something deeper.
The good news? It doesn’t have to stay this way.
True transformation and meaningful connections come from having a clear vision and a commitment to actively design and shape the way you relate with others. We'll get you started.
Dating is one of the few areas of life where we weren't given a roadmap—no one taught us how to do it, there’s no clear structure to follow, and most people are left feeling lost, unsure, and frustrated.
Most of us let our romantic relationships unfold by chance—meet someone, see where it goes, and hope for the best.
But why leave something so crucial as finding a life partner up to luck?
– Peter Drucker
Just as product leaders carefully craft their product’s roadmap to drive success, we too can apply that same level of intentional design to our relationships.
With a structured, design-driven approach, dating becomes comprehensible, more effective, more enjoyable, and, most importantly, aligned with the relationship you're searching for.
Anything is possible with purposeful design.
A Purposefully Designed Dating Life Provides…
Confidence
All your interactions are built on the foundation of who you truly are, making you magnetic, inspiring and empowering to all those around you.
Clarity
Your goals and desires become crystal clear, allowing you to express yourself powerfully and make decisions that are in perfect harmony with who you are.
Direction
No goal will appear too large because you now have the internal compass to guide you confidently toward your true ideal relationships and way of life.
Influence
You naturally inspire others, creating deep connections that allow you to positively impact those around you, whether it’s in love, friendship, or business.
Preference
You no longer settle for connections that don’t serve you, and instead, you confidently engage with individuals who appreciate and respect your true self.
Conviction
You can now navigate difficult conversations, stand by your values, and build life-giving relationships that are rooted in trust and mutual respect.
FAQ
Imagine navigating your dating pursuits with calm, clarity, and purpose, even through the challenges. Picture yourself building trust, communicating confidently, and staying true to your authentic self. What becomes possible when you approach each relationship with openness and strength, creating meaningful, lasting connections aligned with the life you truly deserve?
Meet Tim Bray
Tim founded The Art of Connection in 2022. Since that time he's been helping men and women in tech to not only find incredible relationships but intentionally design them to reflect their values, goals and aspirations.
As a UX designer with an MA in Education, his coaching approach harnesses the power of design and its ability to shape experiences, influence behavior, and create meaning.
"I know I'm successful as a coach when my clients not only find great relationships but when those relationships ignite and empower them to do great things."
Success Stories

Bulscu Wein
In just one coaching session with Tim, I was truly amazed by my improved ability to approach new people. Tim’s guidance played a pivotal role in this transformation. He has a unique talent for helping individuals confront their fears in a nurturing and supportive manner. I wholeheartedly recommend Tim to anyone seeking assistance in learning how to approach and engage with new people. His expertise is truly remarkable.

Dillon Perry
I can't emphasize this enough, working with Tim has truly been a life-changing experience for me. I used to struggle with social anxiety, making it difficult for me to approach and interact with people. Thanks to Tim’s guidance and support, I’ve gained the confidence and tools I needed to overcome my social anxiety. I can now easily approach others and engage in meaningful conversations. This transformation in my social life has been a true gift, and I couldn’t have done it without Tim’s help.

Jeremy Roye
I've always had this fear of approaching and talking to ... well, just about anyone, particularly in group situations. Working with Tim has been transformative for me. His ability to break things down clearly and provide a fresh, human/holistic perspective has completely shifted the way I think about approaching and meeting new people, especially those I'm attracted to. Tim is a true master at what he does, a sweet dude, and I'm incredibly grateful for his guidance and expertise.
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